A hook up with a straight dude is not at all impossible, unlike what most gay guys suggest. In fact, the way you take to heart this belief might be the reason why you fail to make such a successful hook up with a hot straight dude.
Of course, the willingness of the straight dude has a lot to with it, but the hook up depends largely on you and the attitude you choose to attack it.
The battle to snag him starts in your head. Normally it is okay to feel nervous, but to be a wreck and allow a million negative thoughts get the best of you is not fine at all, which stops you from even making an attempt to hook up with a straight dude.
Half the dating game is about your confidence. It is not delusional swagger thinking you will never fail, but a stone cold confidence that you can do it eventually. The ticket is to have the courage to try and approach straight guys, mingle and meet as many as you can so that you will be comfortable around them and picking them up becomes second skin. It definitely comes with practice and making sure you get yourself out there, unlike the closed approach you often take, avoiding a hook up with a straight man altogether because you just think it is impossible.
When that is all you feed your mind that is exactly what will happen. The art of seducing straight men does not entirely depend on what you say or do, but also on the energy you put into it. It is the aura you create, the vibes you send. If all of those are positive, then your hook up with a straight dude is most likely to be positive too.